With two kids there is always a birthday party on the weekends.. I even have a little section in my basement now with little gifts and wrapping paper to avoid any unnecessary stress.. That way there is always something to pick out.. Bianca loves parties. Benjamin not so much. He says it’s too loud and he prefer just to have a play date with one friend at a time. Not 30 crazy kids in a room hehe so for him I only go to the ones that are less stressful, but Bianca wanna attend every single party there is. It’s funny how two siblings can be so different, but I feel it’s so important to see your kids for what they are and not force them into situations they are not happy in..